The false teachers, preachers and spiritual advisors have released their hold upon you now so that YOU can step into your power. You are a divine spark. You have the light of a thousand suns, the magnetism of every full moon, the love and strength of the earth and the shine of every star. You have the universe within you. You are the fire and miracle of life itself. As you sparkle and fan your flame, you liberate others to do the same.... an eternal flame.
There is always a choice ...... give up and die, live as if you were dead or dive deep and find your greatest love and joy then share it 'full on' with the world. Where would you love to be? You are a special breed to have chosen to be on earth for the ascension of humanity. Pisces was the age of martyrs and victims. The Age of Aquarius heralds expansion of our collective consciousness so the heavens are in your favour. Many are dying to show us the way. Some are not able to rise into these higher vibrations so the only way to ascend may be through a spiritual form. Is it possible to get there in your current meat suit? YES! When your mind is balanced and your heart is full, you travel light.
Cliche to say be better instead of bitter but how do you it? How do you rise above your circumstance? And why would you? Why not stay a victim of your circumstance?
A. Analyze. identify exactly what emotion you are feeling that weighs you down. Your emotions are like a GPS to let you know what part of the event you haven't balanced in your perception. They are the blueprints of your soul so it is good to dissect it as a means of self study. Are you ready to release this lower vibration ? Why would you want to let go of your emotion? If you love this heavy cloak that causes so much pain, then keep it. If you intuitively feel there is a greater truth and wish to live with more love and joy, then maybe these questions will help you.
B. Breakthrough. Dig into the emotion to understand why it is there. Anger for example is often fear turned inside out. What is it that you fear and if that fear came true, how would it serve you? Are you angry with another or are you angry about your action or inaction? How can you use this energy to fuel a purposeful path? Where is the wisdom in your anger? Grief is seeing only what we perceive that we've lost but what did you gain? How is it benefiting you and the world to be stuck in emotion? Grief often brings supports from others so if the person is lonely or uninspired with life, grief keeps them company and locked in a lower vibration. Grief, blame, shame or anger may be used an excuse to move away from your divine self and your greater service. When we identify the emotion and know why it is there, then we can use it to fuel a purposeful path to a higher dimension. It is not so much admitting a circumstance was right or wrong, good or bad but finding the service in the event that releases you from the e-motion (energy in motion) and you move into purposeful action with love and grace.
C. Counterbalance. Write a balance sheet of debits and credits. Energy laws state that there is never a loss without a gain. The equation must balance perfectly in your perception to feel love. (Thank you John Demartini for The Demartini Method. It is an Amazing balance sheet.) When you truly live this concept you fly into a divine dimension of living. First you must see there is nothing missing in order to rise into true love and grace. Grief, anger, blame, shame opens the gate to a hellish existence. Love and grace opens the window to a beautiful cosmic awareness.
Dr. John Demartini defines love as the simultaneous, synchronicity of complementary opposites.
"1st Law of Thermodynamics - Energy cannot be created or destroyed. 2nd Law of Thermodynamics - For a spontaneous process, the entropy of the universe increases. 3rd Law of Thermodynamics - A perfect crystal at zero Kelvin has zero entropy." ~ wikipedia
If your loved one dies and you can't see where all the traits you miss have shown up in others you will be stuck in grief and loss and this causes entropy. You may miss their hugs because you have not looked to the other side of the equation to see how the universe has sent you hugs in a different form. You may miss their smile but you have not noticed that their picture on your wall that smiles at you every day. You may miss their friendship but you haven't noticed where new friendships have been birthed. You may miss having visits and conversations, not noticing those who are now filling that conversation gap. If you truly believe in a loving universe then at the deepest part of your being, you know that what is put in your path is FOR your greatest love and learning. Release your attachment and infatuation with the one form, see the benefits in the new forms and expand your awareness. Love is ever-present and eternal, it is the limitation your human eyes and mind that locks you into denser two and three dimensional realities.
The first energy law simply says the equation must balance. If we can accept the definition of love as the union of complementary opposites in a Libra scales kind of way, then Math equation of loss and gain is a beautiful example of Love. The second law states if you don't balance it in your perception it will painfully drive you nuts (entropy as a measure of molecular disorder, lowers the quality of your energy). In your unbalanced form you'll be feeling bitter and victimized by your situation instead of better and empowered by the experience. Stuck in the "loss" side of the equation keeps you small, dense and disempowered. The third law of thermodynamics suggests once you balance the equation you are free to truly step into your power and loving presence in the universe. You awaken your crystalline form.
"There is nothing so disobedient as an undisciplined mind. Pain is certain, suffering is optional. The root of suffering is attachment. Do not lose yourself in the past." Buddha
D. Dividends. Where is the benefit in the trauma? How did it serve you and how did it serve others in all areas of to have this apparent trauma? Where is the blessing in the crisis? How is this situation improving your health? Did you seek new ways of healing? Have you expanded your mind in studying holistic healing texts, the bible or the constitution? Did you gain new soulful friendships? Did you learn to be more self sufficient and resourceful? Has it enhanced your relationship with God? Did you learn how to stand up for yourself and be more confident? How did it benefit you financially? How is this trauma or traumas serving your purpose and greatest service in the world? Are you becoming more true to you in this process? Have you Thanked God for the challenge? If you are still wishing it to go away, then you still have more work to do to see how the challenge is serving you. Once you can say,
"Thank you God for this moment, I see there is nothing to miss or change. I love and appreciate this perfect growth opportunity, i couldn't have designed it any better."
... then you've dropped your cloak and freed your wings to fly.
"The wound is the place where the light enters." ~Rumi
Identify the wound and use it to lighten your existence.